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Story and
photos by U.S. Army Sgt. Jerome Bishop
2nd SBCT PAO, 25th Inf. Div., MND-B
CAMP TAJI, Iraq – Every Soldier has a
different reason for enlisting to be in the Army. Some do it
for patriotic reasons, others for help paying for college,
but one Multi-National Division – Baghdad Noncommissioned
Officer signed up in 2005 for an entirely different purpose.
Before enlisting, Sgt. Wyatt Karney, an
Albuquerque native who serves as a mortar man and Personal
Security Detachment NCO with Headquarters and Headquarters
Troop, 2nd Squadron, 14th Cavalry Regiment, 2nd Stryker
Brigade Combat Team, “Warrior,” 25th Infantry Division, MND-B,
led a life of hard work, shared custody of a child and an
unwanted drug problem.
"I decided to join the Army because I
had a drug addiction and I had to get out of my home town,"
said Karney who now calls Colorado Springs, Colo., home.
Karney's addiction cost him his Family.
It ended his marriage and resulted in shared custody of his
son.
"At the time we were divorced and I had
joint custody of my son, I tried to get off drugs several
times for years and couldn't do it," he said.
For Karney, the worst was telling his
son.
"He didn't ever see it, but I would
explain to him that I had a drug problem and he didn't
notice it, but I just got sick of myself," he added.
Karney said he decided he had to leave
the town where he was born and raised so he could rid
himself of his addiction.
"I have close Family members and a lot
of friends who are involved with drugs and I had to get away
from it."
The call to serve came, as it did with
many Soldiers, when the attacks on New York and Washington
happened Sept. 11, 2001. Even though he felt the call to
duty, it was several years before he enlisted.
"I wanted to join when the towers fell
on 9/11, but because I had joint custody of my son, I didn't
want to leave him,” he said.
Karney said he would join if there was
a chance he would defend his country.
"I've always liked the military, but I
never wanted to join unless there was a conflict going on. I
didn't want to just join and do garrison stuff," he said.
"My grandfather served in WWII and my father served in
Vietnam, and I wanted to serve only if there some kind of
war going on."
In the end, his close relationship to
his son eventually led him to leave.
Two weeks after he pledged his
commitment to the Army, Karney said goodbye to his son and
headed toward a new life in the Army.
"I'm kind of a perfectionist," he said.
"Even though a lot of people said I was a good dad, I knew I
could do better, and I didn't want to keep myself down and
not be the best dad I could be so I needed the change."
Since enlisting, Karney was able to
clean up his life. He credits being away from his hometown
and the people associated with his drug problems, as well as
the Army's no tolerance stand on drug use as reasons for his
success in getting sober.
Today, Karney is contributing to the
mission of providing security on a routine basis for the
commander of the squadron in which he serves.
“Many Soldiers in my command have long
histories. What makes the Army great is it is not about what
you have done in the past, it is how you carry yourself into
the future that truly matters," said Capt. Ken Bernier, a
Garland, Maine, native who serves as the commander of HHT,
2nd Squadron, 14th Cav. Regt. “Sgt. Karney is a reliable
member of my team, who can be depended on to be a riflemen,
vehicle commander and a proficient mortarman."
Back home, his son is waiting for his
return, but he is not waiting alone. There is another member
of Karney’s Family who waits for him. He said she was
instrumental in him turning his life around.
The woman Karney speaks so highly of is
his ex-wife, who he remarried in 2007.
"I didn't have a squared away mind to
be able to deal with things that she was going through, but
she dealt with her stuff and I dealt with mine while we were
separated and we've both grown a lot so we decided to get
back together," he said.
After his four years of service are up
and his duty fulfilled, Karney hopes to one day take a job
as a government employee in Colorado Springs. Until then,
he's sure to continue to fight the good fight, both against
the enemy in Iraq and against the ghosts of a former
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